Author Archives: Monica Matthews

To The Girl Who Lost Herself (But Is Ready To Be Found) – BLOG

Most of the challenges I hear people are having center around relationships. I’m not sure that in the era of drive thru divorce anyone is coming  away unscathed. The current noncommittal generation is all the evidence we need. What is the price of all our reality television based relational skills building? What is the price […]

Motherhood – The Heart Of God.

When you’re a widow who takes the Word at face value, life becomes interesting. Filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, I’ve referred to that ancient text, the person of Truth and Peace, through every financial hurdle, relationship wound and sleepless nights in hospitals hoping God would spare my one perfect gift in life […]

Sex Gate. Is It Just ‘Our’ Animal Nature?

Ministering to the hearts and minds of men and women for many years, the current sex allegation mania comes at no surprise. As humans, we are capable of any and everything. Hence, why I’m personally grateful I have another option other than writhing around in the dust of our animal nature. Animals. It’s funny, most […]

Love or Companionship?

A young lady in her twenties recently asked me if I thought love or companionship was the key to relationship longevity. Implying they might be mutually exclusive. What a great question. As a forty-six year old woman who has been widowed for eighteen years, I can look back now and see that after three brief […]

Monica’s Single Mom Giveaway!

Ok, so here goes…TODAY IS THE LAST DAY TO ENTER! As a single- widowed mother of 18 years, I remember what it was like to struggle to afford a few fun times for my daughter. With that in mind, I want to personally offer a single mother the opportunity to take her child(ren) to the […]

Stubbed Toes & Trampling Swine- Pearls Of Wisdom

The Lord communicates with me in various ways. The proper thing to say here is that it’s always through His Word, but if I’m being honest, I don’t always hear him first from his truth and I’ll tell you why. A spirit of condemnation comes to visit me when I know I’ve erred. When I’ve willfully […]